For the person carrying emotional pain they don’t talk about....
When Peace Leads
A brief reflection on Colossians 3:15, exploring how God’s peace gently leads us to rest, even in grief, tension, and unanswered questions.
Sheila R. Johnson Wilson
4/19/20261 min read


“Let the peace of God rule in your hearts.” — Colossians 3:15
Peace in the midst of grief, tension, or suffering doesn’t always look like resolution.
Sometimes, it looks like less talking… and more resting.
In my own experience, there are moments when words feel unnecessary. The questions are still there. The emotions haven’t disappeared. But something within me begins to settle; not because everything is fixed, but because I’ve stopped trying to force understanding.
Peace doesn’t always come as clarity.
Sometimes it comes as permission.
Permission to pause.
To be quiet.
To not have an answer right now.
When grief is heavy or tension feels unresolved, the instinct is often to explain, process, or push through. But God’s peace doesn’t rush us. It gently takes the lead.
“Let the peace of God rule…” means allowing something greater than our thoughts to guide us.
And sometimes, being guided by peace looks like stepping back, breathing deeply, and resting in God’s presence.
Not everything has to be figured out today.
Peace can hold what we don’t understand.
And for now, that is enough.
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This is for the person who is grieving quietly, carrying trauma, or healing from losses that were never fully spoken. I remember the moment when my own world collapsed; losing loved ones back-to-back, losing the home I shared memories in with my father, losing stability, and losing pieces of myself I didn’t know how to recover. What I didn’t know then was that writing, music, faith, and therapy would become the pathway God used to rebuild me from the inside out. That’s why I created The Quiet Cry Project; a safe place for weary hearts to breathe, feel, and be restored. Your next step is simply to enter this space and receive the comfort God has for you. - Sheila
